Belly Dance Technical Forum
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Got a question?
Ah yes. It is a common and curious question. Woman and girls quickly become enamored about learning everything they can about bellydance, to the absolute surprise and astonishment of brothers, fathers, boyfriends and husbands. Its a phenomena that deserves a good answer.
Why do woman bellydance?
When a woman finds belly dance, its like a long lost friend suddenly knocked on her door. Someone she knew from the past and often wondered what happened to them. Its like getting acquainted all over again. This recaptured acquaintance is her own lost body awareness come back home again. The belly dance involves increasing awareness and celebrating being a woman. Its a personal growth relationship. It gives the tender places women inhabit meaning, art, value, and self worth. It provides a means of expression to the vast silence woman have endured when it comes to having a say in the course of history. Belly dancing counters centuries of puritanical prohibition against the body, and the even more specific message handed down that womens bodies are dirty and evil. The dance originates in the belly and brings beauty to life. It is seen as legitimate in the eyes and hearts of women because they are in control of their own dance, and dancing for their own pleasure and enjoyment. They arent trying to milk some Arab of his oil wells (well, not usually).
Women are often heard to say:
I must have belly danced in a past life!
Woman stay in their bellydance troupes longer than they stay married!
Anyone care to add to this list?
Answer by Delilah
Yes. How could it not? When you are more awake inside your body it has to be an improvement. Sex is not an external event. It doesnt happen to you, it happens within you. Woman who wait for an orgasm to hit them may wait a long time. You must be actively alive and ride the waves of bodily sensation. Of course bellydance can improve your awareness, so can yoga, Tai Chi, swimming, or a good book!
Your process in learning to belly dance will include loosing all the dense un-alive spaces in your body, replacing them with inner awareness and illumination.
I would love to take a survey about the improvement in womens sex life.
Answer by Delilah
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